Over the weekend I had a wonderful small wedding on Wrightsville Beach, NC. The plan was a good one, get married on the beach in February when the beach isn't crowded, might be a little cold, but at least they'd have the beach to themselves. Unfortunately, it didn't quite turn out that way.Read More
Beach weddings are fantastic, they can be as formal or informal as you like. Anything from tuxedos to board shorts. The dress? Anything from a large wedding gown to a little tea length slip-on. Super easy and casual. The problem with beach weddings is that most beaches are public. Sure, people are usually nice and they'll move to accommodate a wedding ceremony, but not everyone will cooperate, sometimes they'll stay near the wedding just to be annoying. Parking can be expensive for your guests, as some beaches, charge a hefty fee for parking. Unless you know someone with a private strip of beach or you rent a venue with their own beach such as the Oak Island Golf Club, you're going to have deal with beachgoers. There is a solution although not always a popular one. A sunrise wedding.Read More
An Ad-Lib Stormy Wedding on Topsail Island, NC.
Part of my continuing effort to showcase weddings in Wilmington and area beaches. This was a very ad-lib wedding on a Friday, around noon, it rained on and off all morning and they decided at the last minute to change locations and do the wedding inside the surf center instead of the beach.Read More
"She said "Yes!" A wedding proposal in downtown Wilmington, NC on the Riverwalk.Read More
Sean Flynn's camera, a Leica M2. Note the Grenade Pin on the strap.
Sean Flynn's camera.Read More
Two very memorable weddings I shot in the past year involved brides that were thinking out of the box by wearing dresses that weren't white. But first a little shallow history. In the 19th century and about midway to the 20th century women wore their best dress to get married in, whatever the color. The notion of buying a special dress to wear for only one day would have seemed ludicrous in those more austere times. In 1840 Queen Victoria wore a white satin dress on her wedding day. Slowly over the next 100 years or so, women with money followed the trend. Fast forward to the end of WWII. After the deprivations of the depression and the boom that followed World War 2, and with a little help from the wedding marketing machine, brides started to opt for a one time use dress. Many brides crafted dresses from the WWII parachutes their boyfriends wore into battle and others bought their dresses in the trendy color of white. The dress manufacturers pushed the color white to symbolize purity and innocence. This is paraphrased from an awesome book called Brides Inc. If your interested I posted a link at the bottom of this post.
Back to my two wonderful brides of the past year. They really surprised me by their dresses and the weddings were great. Don't feel limited by the bridal shops. Many shops are offering a wide variety of colors, or purchase a dress that can be worn for more than one day off the rack. I'm speaking to western brides as many Asian countries use the auspicious color of red. Here are a couple shots of my thinking out of the box brides and their husbands.
Buy the book..... Great book if your interested in general wedding lore or the wedding industrial machine.
A very beautiful bride in very non-traditional dress at a beach wedding with her equally non-traditional husband in the back. Carolina Beach, NC.
Beautiful bride in a green dress on her wedding day at Greenfield Lake in Wilmington, NC.
A couple years ago I'm driving down to Ocean Isle Beach, NC to take some real estate pictures for a friend of mine. My phone rings. "Hello, this is Billy." A guys voice on the line asks "Do you do wedding photography?" I'm thinking "duh, that's why I'm Billy Beach Wedding Photography". I say "Yep! I'm all about the weddings. When are you getting married?" He replies "Today." I say "what?" He replies "It's a long story, I need a wedding photographer at the Oceanic on Wrightsville Beach in an hour." I say "I can be there". He asks, "How much do you charge?" I reply "$200 per hour." He says, "Perfect, Get here!"
Fortunately I had my kit with me. Camera, lenses, flash, backups...the works. I did a quick u-turn and headed for the Oceanic. I got there within the hour met the groom and got the story. It seems that a friend of the Bride was going to do the pictures. When it got down to the actual day she either got cold feet (it happens, wedding photography is not for everyone) or she showed up and told them she was going to charge them some outrageous amount, I can't remember the full story, possibly a combination of the two. It turned out to be a great wedding. The ceremony was literally 3 minutes long, great people, beautiful bride a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon.
What I've learned from this. Always, always have a camera with you. I routinely have at least a minimalist kit with me. A camera, a couple of lenses, a flash and a backup. (I'll confess my backup for my emergency kit is a point & shoot, although a good point and shoot). I keep my main gear in my office as I don't want to haul it around, but my lightweight kit is always with me.
You never know when your going to get a call to cover an event. Things happen. Someone gets in an accident, gets cold feet or forgot to contact a photographer. Also if I'm driving down the road and see something I think is photo worthy I've got the gear to get a decent shot. Cell phones are great and getting better generation to generation but they still con't replace a dedicated camera.
Walking to the ceremony with her Dad on the Oceanic Pier in Wrightsville Beach, NC.
The ceremony. Quick nuptials, lasted about 3 and a half minutes. Oceanic Pier in Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Quick kiss on cheek with the Oceanic Restaurant in the background. Oceanic Pier in Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Quick dip under the pier at the Oceanic Restaurant in Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Taking a walk on the beach post ceremony in Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Candid shot of bride and groom walking on Wrightsville Beach, NC after the ceremony.
Reenacting the proposal on Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Silhouette of bride and groom with sun and rays in the center. Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Candid kiss on Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Bride and Groom sharing a candid moment on Wrightsville Beach, NC.
Monochrome image of bride and groom sharing a kiss with the Oceanic Restaurant in the background. Wrightsville Beach, NC.